The gift of a graceful transition – a personal account of healing into death


Earlier this year I was approached by a client who asked if I would be willing to perform healing on her brother, who was in a coma in an Intensive Care unit. His blood had been poisoned by an aggressive strain of strep bacteria, and his condition had rapidly deteriorated. She first made an appointment to come and see me in person and by the time she got to me for her session, her family had already been informed that he might not make it, so it was immediately evident that I was her last hope for a ‘miracle healing’. I gently explained to her that any healing I did would be performed by the angels from the Divine perspective and so my intention was for the highest and best healing to be delivered without any human hopes or fears getting in the way. I would simply be there to hold the space for whatever needed to take place.

The angels totally supported me in that intention. Sometimes, as humans, it can be difficult to let go of the need to know whether a certain outcome will unfold. Especially when someone’s life is at stake. We so desperately want to offer hope or give good news, but I knew in that moment that it was absolutely vital that I stay neutral and grounded in a space of total unconditional love and surrender to the angels. I felt my client relax as I explained all this to her. It’s as if she too had been given permission to let go of the need to control anything. And I knew that she understood completely that it wasn’t her – or my – responsibility to ‘save’ her brother.

As I began my client’s healing session, I was also guided to send distance healing to her brother in hospital and, at that point, my mind went totally blank and I found I was very easily able to let go and not try to see what was happening. In fact it was one of the easiest sessions I have ever done. The angels allowed me to mentally step back and simply allow the healing unfold as it would. I felt utterly held and supported, and I trusted that the absolute Divine and perfect outcome for all would unfold.

The next day, my client phoned to ask if I would come to the Intensive Care Unit to perform healing in person for her brother. My only other experience of performing a healing of this kind was when my grandmother passed over a few years ago. She has since visited me in meditation and explained that she is now a ‘spiritual midwife’ and helps souls transition from the other side.

I asked the family to gather round and again explained that we were simply holding the space for the most Divinely perfect healing to unfold. I invited all of the family members to place their hands lightly on his body and I observed the angels merging with every person in the room. In that moment, I felt my grandmother’s loving energy behind me and I knew she was also helping to hold the space. Yet, even knowing of her role in spirit, I didn’t jump to any conclusions about the outcome of this healing. I simply let go and I just felt so much love – love for the soul of this man lying unconscious before me, love for his family who had so graciously invited me to assist in their time of great need, and who had offered such an open-hearted and kind welcome – even despite their palpable grief. I totally and utterly surrendered to unconditional love. Again, my mind went blank. But I will never forget the feeling that came over me in that moment.

Something changed in me that day. I never thought I would be able to describe death as a beautiful thing, but I really feel that, as the soul of this man passed over, he gave me a great gift. In that moment, a kind of purity emerged from within me and I can’t help but think that perhaps an outworn part of me also chose to transition at that time. I wonder if perhaps he, too, helped to hold the space for me. In any case, I will never look at life the same way again.

As I left the hospital, I still didn’t know what the outcome would be for that man, but the world around me looked different. Colours appeared brighter and I could see light shining from the eyes of every person I passed. It was like I could see the very light of their soul radiating from within.

I learned a few days later that he had passed shortly after the healing and his sister thanked me, not only for helping her brother to transition smoothly, but also for helping the family to be able to more easily accept and come to terms with his passing. She said the healing had made a huge difference for all of them. I was also told that, as the angels had merged with them, some of the family members, including his mother, were able to feel their energy and a tingling sensation in their fingertips. I’m so very grateful I was given the opportunity to be of service in this way.

So many people fear death. We’re almost taught to fear death from the moment we incarnate into this reality. But that day, I really learned that there is nothing to fear. The love I felt in that room was immense. And as a result of this experience, I truly found something extraordinary.

I found grace.


I want to share two poems I wrote which were inspired by this experience…


‘Grace’ by Alexandra Wenman

People’s eyes look different

It’s as if they are aglow

Like I can now see something

That before I didn’t know


When I look in the mirror

I can tell my face has changed

Not sure how to explain it

But I know I’m not the same


It’s like a light came on in me

That I cannot turn off

So now I am remembering

All the things that I forgot


Like the world is filled with wonder

If you only dare to see

And there really is no difference

Between you and me


‘Visiting’ by Alexandra Wenman

 These are not my hands

This is not my skin

This is just a vehicle

I am travelling in


This is not my name

Though it’s what you know me by

I am not the same

Since I opened up my eyes


This is not my world

I’m just visiting here

I came to learn and teach

About how love conquers fear


I will leave this place

As soon as it’s my time

But one thing I know for sure

Is that I will never die…

A light in the darkness


Photograph by Alicia Wenman

Sometimes, even after all you’ve learned, and all the healing, meditation and manifestation techniques you’ve acquired, you find you’re still stuck or still struggling.

‘Why is this happening?’ You think. ‘Why are my old tools and tricks not having any effect this time?’

You feel like you’re treading water or just floundering about in a sea of emotions. You feel utterly weak and vulnerable, but your old way of being doesn’t fit who you are any more. So you can’t go back. You can only move forward, but you have no idea how to do even begin doing that right now.

It’s like you’re in a fortress of your own emotions, but you can’t break out. Your feelings are holding you hostage and you are out of options. You don’t know which way to turn or how to free yourself from this situation because you’re not even sure what’s causing this internal turmoil in the first place. Sure, life’s been a bit tough lately. But how you’re feeling doesn’t equate to what’s going on in your everyday reality.

How you’re feeling is overwhelmed. You are out of options. You want the ground to swallow you up. You want to vanish from the world, hide away, stay in bed, not face the day, run.

But there is nowhere to run or hide because you know deep down that this turmoil isn’t an external event. Nor has the turmoil necessarily been the result of any physical situation or event that you can put your finger on. The turmoil is happening inside of you. So what on Earth can you do to alleviate this situation?

The simple answer is surrender.

Let yourself drop into a gentle freefall, open up to trusting your higher mind and the universe, and just allow the process to happen.

Fighting it is futile. Because what is going on a shedding process. You are breaking free of all the restrictions and expectations that life and society has placed upon you since childhood and throughout all your lifetimes.

It’s like you are being pushed through an energetic sieve, so all the parts of your personality, your being, your ego / human ‘self’ that aren’t serving you are quickly dropping away. With it, much of your need for material possessions, old outworn habits and even some previously close relationships are now having to be released.

You feel like you have nothing to hold on to. No life raft. No stable ground beneath your feet to hold you. You feel like you are being broken apart. That is because you are.

The key to getting through this is love.

Love yourself without abandon and learn to nurture and nourish your own heart. Be kind and gentle to you during this process. For you are learning to love and forgive yourself at a very deep level. There is no longer any room for any negative self-talk or self-doubt. Holding on to feelings of unfounded guilt or shame is just too painful now so you have to let go of it. You have been forced into a metaphorical corner.

But cowering in that dark corner, you have no choice but to turn your attention within. You have to look inside yourself for answers and, most importantly of all, for support.

People talk about how being cracked apart helps you let in more light. But the simple truth is that you had the light inside of you all the time.

You just weren’t looking in the right direction.

So often we look to external people or circumstances to ‘save us’. We wait for the right partner to bring us love, we wait for the right job before we can feel ‘accomplished’ or ‘fulfilled’ and we wait for other people’s opinions before we feel we have ‘approval’.

Not any more.

Now is the time to believe in yourself. Now is the time to love who you are and to give yourself all the approval you need. No one else is going to rescue you. No cavalry is coming to save the day. You’re it.

You are your own saviour. You are the one you need – and you need you right now!

Time to turn on the light of your own inner power and look to your Divine / higher self to lead you from the darkness – away from the pain, the loss and the discomfort back in to the light of peace, joy, bliss and, most importantly, of love.

It is all inside of you. You just need to unlock it.

Love is the key.


Precious Wisdom™ is a new form of ‘healing alchemy’ that can help find your inner light and personal power, while supporting you during this process.

What is Precious Wisdom™ Healing Alchemy?

Precious Wisdom™ is a healing technique, which awakens you to true empowerment through the process of ‘spiritual alchemy’. This healing system has been channelled by Alexandra Wenman since 2012 with the help of Archangel Metatron and Lord Melchizedek, and uses universal golden energy and ancient symbols to align you with your Divine self and help you rapidly step into your own personal power.

What happens during a treatment?

The treatment can be delivered in two ways: 1) as a guided journey and energetic transmission via Skype or 2) a little like Reiki, with the client lying on a therapy couch or sitting in a chair while the energy is delivered via the healer gently placing their hands on or over the client.

After a session…

You will feel stronger, more confident, centred and aligned. You can experience increased energy and a brighter outlook on life. Many clients have also reported feeling much more empowered and issues they have previously struggled with no longer seem to affect them in the same way.

I wrote a song for my wedding

Putting my poetry to music is something I have wanted to do for years and I finally had the chance in October last year. I wrote a song for my husband and sang it at our wedding on the magical island of Ibiza. It felt like a long-held dream coming true.

I was a little rusty and kinda nervous, and it was also a miracle I didn’t bawl my guts out – especially considering everyone else did – but I am so glad I did it! And I think my hubby Tony was pretty pleased as well.

The whole day was so blessed and magical. We honoured the four cardinal directions and had a mixture of different ceremonies, including Native American, Jewish and Celtic traditions, a pagan hand-fasting and, of course, an angel blessing. And I couldn’t forget to include a nod to our celestial friends by creating table centres depicting all of my favourite star constellations.

It was my intention that our wedding be more than just a celebration of our love, but a celebration of love in all its forms, and I wanted to spread that love across our whole planet. So, as we’ve just had Valentine’s Day, I wanted to sprinkle that love far and wide even more…

Here’s to love in all its forms!

Loads of love,

Alexandra xxx

‘My Everything’
Lyrics by Alexandra Wenman
Music by Kath Haling
Performed by Alexandra Wenman (Vocals) and Claire Wakeman (Guitar)

Photos by This Modern Love Photography
Video by Jake Westwood
Hair and Make-up: Shillito Sisters
Dress: Claire Pettibone at Blackburn Bridal
Shoes: Oscar Tiye
Venue: La Escollera, Ibiza


Tree of Life meditation: grounding, cleansing and protection

TreeClose your eyes and centre your awareness in your heart.

Begin to take some slow deep breaths and set the intention that you are breathing in love and light.

As you breathe out, you are letting go of all your cares, worries, doubts and fears. Breathing out anything that isn’t serving you at this time.

Letting go and relaxing into deep levels of love.

Filling yourself up with more and more light.

Picture yourself in a brilliant pillar of pure light. This light is coming from infinite source above your head and flowing all the way down into the very core of mother earth.

As you are filled with light, you begin to radiate light all around you, so that the light coming in is amplified within your heart and sent out as a vibration to every living being in creation.

Become acutely aware of your physical body. Focus on the sensations that your physical body is feeling in this moment.

Feel the weight of your body on the chair, the bed or the floor where you sit or lay during this meditation.

Feel the sensation of the clothing against your skin, the temperature of the air around you.

Imagine you can feel a tingling sensation in the tips of your toes and your fingertips, as your vibration begins to raise.

Become aware of the sole of your feet, and imagine that you are growing roots, like the roots of a tree, out of the bottom of the soles of your feet.

Imagine these roots are growing down into the earth. Through the grass and past the rocks into the soil, the minerals beneath the surface of the earth. Smell the fresh soil and the moisture of the earth as your roots delve even deeper down.

Past the rubies, the diamonds, the gold and silver and all the treasures contains within the earth.

Down into the earth’s crust and bursting through into the molten lava at the core of the earth. Feel the intense warmth at the centre of the earth.

Imagine a crystal cave in the very heart of the earth and extend your roots now into that cave, wrapping your roots around the beautiful diamond representing the heart of mother earth.

Feel a warm, golden honey light travelling up through those roots now, into your feet, your calves, your shins, up and over your knees, the back of the knees, up into the thighs and hamstrings.

Feel this honey golden light washing up into and over your hips, buttocks, pelvis, and into your sacral area.

Travelling up into your abdomen, lower back, your waist, upper body, chest, flowing your heart with a delicious golden warmth.

Feel the golden warmth now spreading over your whole chest area, up into your shoulder, down your arms and spreading into your fingertips.

Feel it flowing up your neck, your throat, your jaw – relaxing all of your muscles – as it flows into your face, over the back of your head, filling your entire face and head all the way up to your crown.

As your whole body is now immersed in this golden liquid honey light. So warm and delicious. So nurturing and comforting. So loving and calm.

Feel the golden light now completely mixing and integrating with the pure light coming in from above, so you are now fully enveloped in a beautiful pillar of golden-white energy, with those roots stilled wrapped around the crystal at the centre of the earth.

Feel your heart begin to beat in time with the primal heartbeat of the earth mother.

With every primal heartbeat, pulses of light are being sent up through your roots and into your body. Feel this light flowing in waves up your body and when it reaches the top of the crown of your head, feel it flow up and out like the branches of a tree.

Imagine your body is the trunk of the tree and extend your branches of light ever upwards in your mind’s eye.

Feel, sense or imagine these branches growing up into infinity until they touch the light of God / Source / the Divine.

As your branches connect with the pure light of the Divine, light travels down your branches and into your body.

Down through the crown of your head, washing over your face, the back of your head, your neck and throat. Washing over your shoulders, down your arms and into your fingertips.

The pure light of Source is spreading out over your chest and flowing into your heart where, again, the golden light from mother earth mixes and integrates with the pure light from Source. With every breath, your heart is opening and expanding more and more.

Breather the light from source down even further into your body. Let it wash down ver and through your ribs, upper back, down over your waist, your lower back , abdomen, pelvis, hips and buttock.

Flowing down into your thighs, hamstrings, knees, calves, shins, and right down into your feet to the very tips of your toes.

Feel yourself now as this glorious tree of golden-white light – representing the tree of life!

Feel your roots connected into mother earth and your branches stretching up to source.

Feel your connection to everything in existence. Feel grounded and protected in this light. This is your light. This is your Divine self.

Imagine now that you are walking in a beautiful woodland. You are surrounded by all the creature and animals of the earth. And all the magical creatures have come to join you – fairies flit around you, unicorns walk beside you.

Through the dappled light piercing through the foliage, you spy a huge ancient tree. It is growing in a clearing and around its base is a circle of flowers.

You ask the wise and ancient tree’s permission to enter the sacred circle and the tree invites you to place your hand upon its trunk and feel the rough surface of it’s bark.

You can feel sparks of light being showered over you from the tree and it telepathically invites you to wrap your arms around its trunk.

As you allow yourself to embrace the wise tree in a full hug, you breathe in the smell of its freshness and you feel your lungs filling with fresh oxygen.

You feel revived and renewed on all levels.

You turn and sit within the circle of blossoms at tree’s base, with your back resting against its trunk.

In the cool shade of the tree, you feel anchored and grounded as you tune into the sounds and sensations of the forest. You can hear birdsong, the rustle of the leaves and you can feel the cool breeze against your cheek as the warm sun beats down upon your brow and warms your shoulders.

Spend a moment in the forest, connecting to nature, as insects whip past your ears, and animals graze nearby. After a moment, you doze off…

[Allow 3-5 mins here for the participants to go deeply into the experience]

As slowly you begin to rows from sleep, you become aware that you are back in the room where you began this meditation and you start to connect back with the sensations that your physical body is giving you in this moment.

Taking a few deep breaths, draw your roots back up into your feet from the centre of the earth. And you draw your branches back in towards you from source. Finding yourself again in a pillar of light, letting go of the image of you as the tree and connecting to yourself as a human being once again.

You now become more and more aware of the shape of your physical body, the weight of your body, the pressure of your body as it sits or lies as you do in this meditation.

You feel the clothes against your skin, the air of the room around you, and allow these sensations to bring you all the way back into the now moment.

Centre your awareness in your heart space and allow your awareness to expand and become body-shaped once again.

Open your eyes when you are ready.

Channelled message from the Elohim angels

Channelled by Alexandra Wenman©, 9.30am, 17/2/16,


Seven mighty Elohim surround you

Seven facets of divine creation
Seven building blocks of light
Seven joined in emanation
The seven of God’s holy might

We are tall,
We are white
Ancient forms of
purity and light
Piercing through
the dark of night

Our hands above your crown
Our wings about your heart
Our light within your mind
Create! It’s time to start

As an orchestra of strings
through the core
of your heart…

Channelled message from the Seven Elohim

We come at a time of great need to intervene for you.

What is it you are waiting for? Begin your journey! Your heart holds all the answers you seek and the world is waiting for your message. You have gifts you need to share like secret pearls hidden within a shell. Call upon us and will help you crack open that hard shell that you have kept around you like some form of protection. Only this shell is no protection you need. It is merely the limiting shell of your fears and doubts, your limiting patterns, programmes and beliefs.

Break out of that limiting space! Crack open that shell. Release your fears and fly into the light. Spread your wings into the glorious sunshine of a new dawn and take flight!

We understand that there are many lifetimes of this fear that you have accumulated. And so your layers of protection resemble the layers of sediment on an oyster shell. Layer by layer as you consciously let in more light, more love and the more you listen to the calling of your truth and the song of your heart, you will begin shedding these layers.

All you need do is set the intention that you are ready to let go of all that has been holding you back. It is that simple!

Ask for our assistance and the assistance of the angels and councils of light and we will bring more light into your body, mind, heart and soul.

Just think it to begin it.

Will it to be so and then just let go…

Everyone on this planet will have to go through this great shedding as there is too much light now to sustain the deep levels of fear that have bound this paradigm and this reality together. This way of being is now outdated. The cracks are showing!

Set your sights on the light.

As much as you can, visualise yourself enveloped in pure light. Breathe it in. Take it into your heart. Open your heart like a blossoming flower of light. Light coming in from infinite source above and mother earth below and flowing into and out of your heart with each breath. The pure light of love.

As you receive it, so shall you give it and the more you give, the more you shall receive. This is the key to breaking down your outdated layers of fear, limiting beliefs, unbalanced ego and the illusion of protection.

When you stand in the pure light of love, you shall need no protection. For love is all you will be and so love is all you will see and experience.

We are standing around you in a circle – the seven mighty Elohim who surround the thrown of Grace. We are bringing the pure light of God in through your crown chakra. Illuminating your mind and all of your your unique gifts. We are switching on the lightbulb in the dark room of your doubts so that you can more clearly see who you are and what you are meant to be.

In truth, you can never really stray from your path, but you must consciously intend to stay on it for it to flow. You can choose to exercise your free will and act against it, but this will only make the process feel more difficult for you and then your guides and angels will have to intervene to bring you back on track. This can be painful as you try so hard to hold on to that which is not serving you, but which creates an illusion of comfort and safety. You feel you need to cling to the material as, up to now, you think that is all you know. But the sense of freedom you will have will be far more liberating, supportive and comforting if you only learn to let go.

The best course of action is to surrender to the light. Devote your life to the light and let go of any ideas you have as to how that will play out in your earthly reality. Your higher self has it all in hand, so relax into the light and let your focus be on the now moment. And, in every now moment, set the intention to give and receive vaster and vaster quantities of light.

Live in light.

That is truly all we ask. It is so simple. That is the way of the heart. And that is the key to en-‘light’-enment.

We are the creators of form. We wish to co-create heaven on earth with you, and for you. Step into the light and be unafraid – for heaven is your birthright and we are assisting you always.

With love and grace, the Seven Mighty Elohim xxx

Know your limits: 10 tips for how healers and therapists can maintain healthy boundaries

Know your limits

Angelic Soul Coach and Cosmic Alchemist Alexandra Wenman shares her top 10 tips for how healers and therapists can maintain healthy boundaries and why it’s so important for both ourselves and our clients

Having worked as an angel healer, channel and holistic therapist since 2008, these are just a few of the important things I have learnt along the way about protecting my space, and honouring both myself and my clients. Each of these tips has really helped me keep my own energy levels high, allowed me to stay grounded and centred, and ensured that I am giving my clients the highest level of divine service I am capable of when they come to me for a session or workshop.

These are just suggestions, and you can add to this list or omit where necessary, but the idea is that you make sure that you are taking care of yourself and your own needs as well as those of your recipients. It’s very easy for us, as healers, to give out so much of our own energy and I know I have, at times, experienced periods of total overwhelm and exhaustion as a result. I’ve learnt one too many very tough lessons in having safe and healthy boundaries and so I felt I would share my personal checklist in case it can help you, too.

1) Love yourself
Self-love must come first. If we aren’t treating ourselves with love and respect, how can we do the same for our clients? The more love and compassion you can give to yourself, the more you will have to share. You are far more effective as a healer when your energy levels are at optimum. Putting yourself and your needs first isn’t selfish, it’s necessary. So be kind to you.

2) It’s OK to say ‘no’.
You don’t always say ‘yes’ to children – sometimes it’s in their highest interest for you to say ‘no’ with compassion. Equally, when you aren’t constantly on hand to help or give advice, it can actually empower the other person to find the answers within themselves. We aren’t here to rescue people and having that expectation put on you can be very draining. Say no with love when you feel you need to, speak your truth, and I guarantee the other person will thank you for it. If they don’t, perhaps it is a lesson they still need to learn. Either way, you are doing both them and yourself a disservice if you say yes when you really want to say no. Likewise, if you feel that you aren’t the right healer for someone, don’t be afraid to refer them on to someone you think may be better suited to their needs.

3) We aren’t here to ‘fix’ people
A healer is not here to wave a magic wand and make people’s problems just go away. We are merely facilitators to help others take responsibility for their own healing journey. Don’t let people put unrealistic expectations on you and be clear from the start that you are here to help them tap into their own inner power so they can heal themselves.

4) Surrender the outcome
When we hold on to the expectation of an outcome, we can often block the solution or the miracle from appearing in our lives, or the lives of our clients. Surrender the outcome to the divine for the highest possible outcome to manifest. This way, you are releasing any stress or expectation from yourself and opening the way for deeper healing on all levels.

5) Value yourself and your work
Be honest about your own needs when setting your prices and make sure you are valuing the work you do and who you are. Volunteer work is excellent, but not if you are giving away everything for free and not able to support yourself financially. If you struggle with charging money for spiritual work, perhaps thinking about seeing a therapist who specialises in clearing limiting beliefs and contracts might help. Many lightworkers have made oaths and vows of poverty or been persecuted in past lifetimes, so it’s important to clear those issues so you can move forward with grace and ease and do the work you came here to do.

6) Honour your own time
Have set working hours and don’t allow people to phone or text you for advice or help outside of those hours or outside of session times. If you must take calls outside of session times, perhaps have a 10min limit so the person isn’t keeping you on the phone for hours and effectively getting a free session out of you. Likewise, don’t be afraid to cut the call short and ask them to book a session if they would like more help on the topic. As empaths who want to help, it can be difficult for us to do this, but ultimately it will be far healthier for both of you and your client will respect you for it. Likewise, if someone is lingering too long after a session and won’t leave within the agreed time limit, do not be afraid to inform them that you will have to charge them more if they want to extend the session. Your time is valuable and, again, it’s healthier for both of you if you aren’t being drained energetically. Again, this is not selfish. You would’t ask your lawyer or accountant for a free appointment, would you?

7) Healer heal thyself
Take responsibility for your own healing journey. The more clear your own channel, the better able you are to help others keep theirs clear. Have regular healing sessions or do swaps with other therapists so there is an equal exchange of energy as well. When you are feeling fresh and clear, you will enjoy helping others more, too.

8) We aren’t gurus
We are not here to disempower others by telling them what to do or how to live. We are merely here as examples and facilitators to help others awaken and find their own true path and calling. Empower others to empower themselves and see everyone as an equal. We are all at the right place on our path, so, likewise, don’t judge others if they are not as spiritually ‘advanced’ as you think yourself to be. We are never going to know it all in this lifetime, so keep your sense of wonder and understand that you are still learning too.

9) Don’t slip into co-dependence
In my own experience, I have often been tempted to call upon my skills as a healer / therapist when trying to help my friends or family members. One particular friend I had known since childhood became quite fixated on me and decided that I was going to be her rescuer. Ever the empath, I just wanted to help and threw myself into that very role. But it soon became apparent that she had no desire to actually heal herself and was trapped in a cycle of trauma and victimhood as, on some level, it was serving her. Eventually, she became quite aggressive and verbally abusive when I tried to lovingly distance myself and, sadly, I had to cut all contact. I later discovered this was a classic case of co-dependence that I had been trapped in with this person since the age of 4 years old.

I am now much more aware of how my tendency to help others can be taken advantage of and I keep my boundary in check at all times. Friends have often asked me for healing sessions without expecting to pay, but I soon find that when I tell them my fee, they suddenly no longer wish to book a session. This suits me just fine and doesn’t mean I am not there for my friends when they need a friendly shoulder to cry on, but I just don’t do go into full therapist mode and merely give my honest opinion in the same way any friend would for me if I needed support. I am now able to trust that everyone has the tools to heal themselves within them and it can be much more empowering if I actually step back and don’t try to become the rescuer.

10) The same goes for spiritual boundaries
I cannot extol the virtues of cleansing and dedicating your space enough. Spiritual hygiene and creating a sacred space is so important for the work we do. I always cleanse my space before and after sessions and workshops. Just like I wouldn’t want to deal with a nasty or unkind person in my daily life, I do not want to deal with any energies that are less than loving and divine in my healing work. Again, if a client comes to you and you do not feel comfortable working with them or you don’t feel you are the right person to help, do not be afraid to say no. I recently had to refer on a client who had some particularly nasty spirit attachments and, while I can do spirit release work, I was not equipped to handle this one. But I got to see, first hand, just how protected I was and my space was due to the cleansing and protection I had done in preparation for the session. It’s also important not to go into fear around topics like this, but taking some responsibility and a respectful approach will ensure you are honouring your boundaries and those of your client.

For more information on Alexandra’s work or to book a session, visit or email info@alexandrawenman.com7 copy 11

Unlock your Precious Wisdom


Precious Wisdom(™) is the spark of divine unconditional love that lies at the heart of every single world religion and spiritual teaching.

In truth, it is a wisdom that cannot really be taught. You must be willing to embark on the inner path – the path of self-exploration that leads you towards true self-love. For it is only by truly knowing yourself that you will know God and have the answers to the universe and the real purpose of life on Earth.

Earth is the school for the soul.

We do not stop here. We are merely visitors in this place of learning – arriving in the world of form and matter to accelerate our soul’s growth. The love that we experience here is just the tip of the iceberg compared to who and what we are as a soul.

Precious Wisdom(™) is a divine channelled healing system gifted to the world through Alexandra Wenman by the Archangel Metatron, Lord Melchizedek and the councils of light to assist us in awakening to our true power – the power of love. This beautiful healing is the energetic gift of Spiritual Alchemy delivered in the form of ancient sacred symbols and the universal golden ray of Lord Melchizedek.

There are many of us at this time who are searching. We have explored many different spiritual paths and ways of tuning into our soul’s calling, following our inner yearning and accessing our own divine power. Many lightworkers and star seeds are beginning to understand this hidden path behind the outer practical teachings of many religions, ancient mystery schools and cultures. Deep within the heart of many such teachings – such as the Kabbalah, the Tao, ancient Egypt and Greece, the Gnostic Gospels, the Shamanic path, Wiccan and Druidic practices – is a secret path that only those who are pure of heart and open of mind will be able to find.

This hidden path has been depicted in ancient symbols for millennia. Many of these powerful symbols have been demonised by the church and turned into symbols of fear to prevent the population from accessing their true birthright and finding the god within. But the true meaning of these symbols is a simple but powerful message of love. In truth, they are all symbols depicting us: the human being as a greater consciousness in physical form, or ‘spirit in matter’.

Precious Wisdom(™) claims back the true meaning of these symbols and, in doing so, aids us in claiming back our own power and finding the God within.

Precious Wisdom(™) is like a golden strand or thread that connects the secret teachings at the heart of the world’s religions. It is the key to our hearts, bringing us back into alignment with our true nature, and assisting us in undoing all our lifetimes of conditioning and control. Precious Wisdom(™) assists in bringing us back to the simple truth that we are – and our purpose is – universal, perennial, undying, everlasting, limitless, pure, divine and unconditional…


Channelled message from Jesus/Jeshua/Sananda:

Every one of you is a higher consciousness driving this vessel you call a body. Just as you drive a car but do not think you are the car, do not think you are your body, for it is only temporary. Get used to the idea that you are a greater mind – part of the mind of God and all of creation. There is no separation. The body is merely your vehicle to house your soul during this momentary glimpse of the world of physical form.

The difference between religion and spirituality is that religion was created by man. Religion has appropriated the true teachings and wisdom so that man could control humanity. Wars have been fought over religious ideology for millennia.

Ask yourself: ‘How can something supposedly built on love lead to war?’

Your heart knows the answer. Your heart is the key to your divinity. Do not blindly follow anyone else’s doctrine or dogma. There is no other guru than your heart. Your heart knows what to do in any given moment. At any given time. Look within and you shall have the answers you seek.

Return to your power, little ones. Claim back your divine right to your heart’s secret murmurings. Switch off the news, leave the church, walk away from those who would ask you to ignore your own guidance, and from those who would tell you never to listen to or speak your own truth, who would tell you not to honour your soul or follow your dreams.

There is no saviour, save yourself.

It is time to claim back your power! This is not the definition of power that has been misused by so many for so long! This is not about having ‘power over’ someone or something. This is the power of love. It is a quiet, peaceful but all-enduring power, and if you listen to it and be willing to awaken to it, it will begin to nudge you in the right direction for your soul and the path that you were destined for.

As you continue to follow its whispers and grow in faith for it, it will begin to get louder until you can no longer ignore the calling of your heart. And then all the lifetimes of conditioning and control will have no more power over it and no effect on it.

Then the power of your heart will become as a lion’s roar from deep within you. You will drop your masks. You will rise up in love and devotion to your soul and the God that rests within you like a sleeping dragon. A fire will grow within your belly. The fires of your passion, the flames of wisdom will rage through you and you shall be illuminated.

The power of love will guide you to your true soul’s calling and purpose. That purpose is to ignite the pure spark of love within your heart. To know the God within. And then to share of this bounty with all the world to encourage them to do the same.

This is where the world’s religions mistook our message. We did not ask for a forceful approach. We did on no account tell them to push their ideas on to others or to attempt to enslave or entrap. We merely asked them to be examples of the light. They misread that message.

The time has come to set the record straight. A new dawn has approached for humankind. A golden dawn has arisen. Be the light and others will be inspired by your example. That is all you need to do. Be kind, be loving, spread love around and it will catch on like wildfire. The fire of your heart is lit by the torch of the divine. This is a flame that can ever die or be extinguished. It can only be diminished if you allow it to be. Do NOT allow it. Breathe love into your heart and the flame shall billow and burst forth.

Be as a lantern in the dark of night, radiating warmth and giving off light.

Only then will you have achieved what you came to the world of matter to achieve and you shall be guided home. For many of you, this is your last incarnation on Earth. What will you choose to do with your remaining time here? Do not ignore the inner nudgings of your soul.

To thine own self be true!!!!!! This is all you have to do. Be the light, shine bright.

In love and service, Jesus / Jeshua / Sananda. xxxx

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Video blog: Clear your fears with 4 powerful questions…


1) What do you most fear?
2) Who are you really?
3) What makes your heart sing?
4) What would you do if you didn’t care what anyone thought of you?

In this blog I share my own process for overcoming irrational fears and negative self-talk. I invite you all to look within and explore your deepest fears so that you can break free of what’s holding you back from following and achieving your dreams.

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